While every woman is different, there are some universal truths out there when it comes to flirting. While not every woman is going to be attracted to every man, no matter how charming they are, you can at least garner the attention of most women by following some of the tips listed in this article.

First and foremost, refrain from being cliché. Women generally abhor cheesy pickup lines. They are insincere and will usually get you nothing but a laugh. It is much better to approach a woman with a friendly smile and a sincere introduction. You can usually tell is a woman is interested right away. If she is, keep flirting. If not, don't pester her- that will only result in her ultimately being totally turned off by your approach.

Never be crude when flirting. Don't comment on a woman's body. In fact, commenting on her appearance at all when you first approach her is generally frowned upon. Let her know you think she is attractive in other ways- by making eye contact, smiling, listening to what she has to say, etc. Be friendly and outgoing and make small talk, but never drone on and on about yourself. That too is a sure turn off.

Use positive body language. Face the woman you're flirting with. Touching her in a friendly, appropriate way, like a quick pat on the arm, is a great way to let her know you are interested without making her feel uncomfortable. Never touch her for too long or anywhere that could make her nervous or fearful. You don't want to scare a woman away when you are flirting!

Finally, be sincere. Ask her questions about herself, but don't get too personal. Just let the woman you are flirting with know that you have a real desire to know her opinions and to find out more about her. Never lie or try to be something you're not when you are flirting- most women can see right through the charade. Overall, the best way to be successful is to be straightforward, friendly, and sincere. If you flirt with those things in mind, you will likely get a date out of it!