It is said that distance is one of the most important facts that contribute to the success or failure of a relationship. While that has been proven to be true, it is also true that couples can do several things to help make their long distance relationship work for them. This article will give some hints on how to survive the pitfalls of a long distance relationship.

First, remember that effective communication is the key to making any relationship work, but it is especially important with a long distance one. Both partners should know exactly what the other is expecting from the relationship. Is it a fling or something more serious? Are both partners marriage-minded? If each person in the relationship doesn't have the same goals in mind, the relationship may never flourish.

In the case of a long-tern or married couple that is making it work long distance, communication is still very important. Be sure to correspond with your lover as often as is possible, and keep them at the forefront of your daily and long-term plans. Make sure you are on the same page each step of the way.

It is very important to remember that relationships are fragile and require hard work. Never do anything when your partner isn't with you that you wouldn't do if they lived nearby. Hold them to the same standard. Infidelity is a death knell to a long distance relationship, just as it is to most all relationships. Be faithful and honest and expect your partner to do the same.

Finally, take good care of yourself. Pamper yourself- eat right and get enough sleep. Sometimes this is difficult, especially in the case of long distance military relationships, but remembering that a healthy you helps ensure a healthy relationship is crucial. When your lover can't be with you, keep yourself busy- work hard, invest in hobbies, spend quality time with loved ones. Keep the future with your partner in mind, but take advantage of the present- try to live each day to the fullest and do what you can to keep your long distance relationship flourishing.