Men can be easy to read, or they can be confusing. A man’s interest in you is sometimes misleading, because it depends on his frame of mind at the time. Men are reactionary by nature, and what may seem to be an amorous interest can turn out to be a desire for a little adventure for the moment.

Yet there are some true ways to tell if a man is falling in love with you. The first may be a quick “drive-by” to get a closer look, or it may be a “frontal assault” where he comes right up and tries to grab your full attention. Although this second approach is more often a sexual come-on, it can also indicate a real interest in you as a person.

This first encounter is an assessment, even though he probably knows that one meeting does not reveal all he needs to know. If this initial face-to-face satisfies him, he will want to dominate your time from that point on, at least in the beginning. Love for many men is more about possessing you in the first stages of attraction.

If his desire for a deeper relationship is genuine, you will notice changes in his behavior. He will alter his routines - which are so very important to a  man - so that he can have more time with you. He will actually offer to sacrifice a poker night to take you to a play, which will earn him a lot of razzing from his friends. If this happens, you can be sure that he is more than a little interested in you.

Lastly, if he shows an interest in things that are important to you, it’s almost a guarantee that is falling in love with you. Asking to meet your family and circle of friends, watching a sentimental movie, or wanting to do nothing but spend the day with you are all sure signs of love.