Most women know that it’s really kind of easy to catch a man’s attention. A sexy dress, a new hairdo, or a vivacious demeanor can wow the boys in a heartbeat. If you’re looking for something a little more serious, though, it might be more difficult to tell just what a man is really thinking.

Men are notoriously hesitant to be intimate on an emotional level, and that’s just what you need to focus on if you want a serious relationship. You need to weed through those superficial layers to get at the real person underneath that veneer.
The only way to do that is to be as real as you can be when you deal with him, and you will begin to see how he feels.

If a man shows an interest in what makes you tick, he is definitely serious about you. Men are generally satisfied in knowing just the minimum about your real desires in life. A man who wants to sit down and have long talks about things other than sex and sports, he is likely sizing you up for a possible long-term relationship.

If he asks you to choose the venue for a date, that is definitely a sign that he is interested in a deeper relationship. Most men have a need to take control of those kinds of decisions - most decisions, in fact. Letting you decide where to eat or which show to see is very telling, because it likely means he wants to know more about you - what you like, what your passions are, how your mind works.

If he wants you to break out your family albums or scrapbooks, you are absolutely on his radar. These are details about a woman that are near the bottom of a man’s list if he is just interested in a good time. Wanting to know more about your background is a sure sign that he is serious about you.