This can be a very difficult thing to understand, mostly because of the huge difference in the way men and women present their public persona. Men are trained to put on a façade. Women are too, but in a different way. A man can act as if nothing is on his mind, whereas a woman will more often exhibit how she’s feeling in some way.  This will be to a woman’s advantage if she’s beginning to doubt her husband’s feelings, because she’s more tuned in to the subtleties of human emotions.

A woman should have a fairly good idea of how her husband normally reacts to emotional issues after living with them for awhile. Every man has a method of dealing with things. Some men become unemotional as a reaction to emotional situations, others become nervous and put off, still others become downright irritated when a woman displays her emotions. This will be their normal mode from the beginning, when you first fall in love and especially through the first years of marriage.

If his method changes, there may be a problem. A man who is losing interest will be more and more unaffected by his wife’s emotional displays, acting more like an outsider who is analyzing you, or like an authority figure such as a father might deal with his daughter’s problems. Contrarily, a man becoming more aggravated that his wife is bothering him with her problems can be a sign that he is falling out of love as well.

Depending on how a man normally treats those “little things”, like remembering your anniversary or your birthday, you may be able to tell how he feels if he starts forgetting what is important to you. A general disinterest in your life will be something that will become more obvious, especially if you are looking for signs of his declining interest. Rely on your intuitive skills, because men are good at covering up how they really feel.